Our problems, thoughts, childhood and family dynamics are all very personal. Because of that, many people are reluctant to discuss their concerns and the fact that they are going or have gone, for some help with these issues. For the same reason, they often do not discover that their best friend colleague, or family member has also received personal guidance from a professional.

The question can be answered, however, in one word—everyone! One myth is that men do not seek help. This is not true. I have provided counselling, psychotherapy and seminars to as many men as women. Another factor that people question is age. I have seen men and women of all ages. Adults from their early 20’s to late 70’s have found their way to my door with all the same problems as anyone else; past history, relationships, self-esteem, stress, depression are just a few examples. Many couples come for marriage counselling. Some of these couples have only been married for a few years but others have been married for 30 plus years. Second marriages and all the difficult dynamics that that entails bring many others. Relationships are difficult and can benefit from a third party professional whether they are heterosexual or homosexual and many gay individuals and couples have also sought my services.

But adults are not the only ones with problems. I see many teens who are confused about their future, their relationships, drugs, alcohol, sex and family issues. Some have experienced abuse and are wise enough to deal with it early. Many have come from good, supportive families but still are confused by life. Teens appreciate an unbiased professional who will give it to them straight, and they get that here. They are given accurate information, possible outcomes of different decisions and guidance as to moral, legal, ethical and emotional implications and are allowed to make their own choices in a supportive environment.

Unfortunately, children also need counselling at times. From approximately aged 3 and up, play therapy and/or talk therapy (depending on the child) helps children share and work out their concerns. Some of the problems that little children deal with include sexual abuse, domestic violence, alcoholism in the family, divorce, parental visits, step-parents, and learning difficulties such as ADD/ADHD, which leads to problems with learning, fitting in and social skills.

Often the parents will want counselling to help them deal with the child’s issues while the child is receiving help. At Elayne Tanner & Associates Inc. we can provide you with both components at the same time, so as to be more easily fit in to your busy schedule. We have fully trained, experienced professionals who can collaborate with each other and work as a part of your team in solving the problem.

Our seminars are another venue that brings out the full gamut of people. Our goal in doing these seminars is to provide high, professional quality information in a cost efficient manner. The individuals who present are all very highly qualified in their topic and you would be unlikely to find a presentation of such a specific focus at such an inexpensive cost. We pride ourselves on making our participants feel special and so our snacks and meals are included in the price and are always gourmet caliber. As part of our mandate, we always include at least one participant who would not be able to afford a course, but whom we know will benefit from it, for no cost to them. This is one of the ways in which we support our community.

So who comes to see us? Everyone does—from Toronto, Oakville, Burlington, Guelph, Milton, Georgetown, Rockwood, and all points in between, the distance is short, the drive is easy and relaxing, parking is never a problem and our quality is never compromised. So what’s stopping you?